Saturday 8 March 2014

My attitude! My future

Starts the month of March, it’s about women everywhere.  The International Women’s day was first observed in the early 20th century. Clearly, women’s rights, women’s equality, safety of women, career of a women and their growth are not phrases of this century alone.  From the time of Eve, women have been looked down and this has not changed in the present era. An era ruled by technology. 

Today, landing on mars has become reality but a woman stepping outside her house in the late evenings, travelling alone, driving, taking up a career in a so called men dominated field, women in business, politics, and technology- name anything it will only invite the stares and surprised looks of many in the society.  This is the scenario prevailing not just in our country. How many of us know Marie Curie was not allowed to become a member of the prestigious French academy only because she was a woman?  Sounds ridiculous, doesn't it? Now that she is famous we know about it. There are many women out there who are deprived of recognition on grounds of gender imbalance.

Women tend to prioritize many above themselves- parents, family, relatives and almost everyone who come their way. The result is that their passion, career, goals and ambition take a back seat.  I agree that women have limitations. But going beyond the limits in spite of the limitations is what make a woman successful.
I do not support the feminist movements and activities. They seem to portray women as the fragile gender. Posters celebrating women, offers on women’s day, special shows on television, status updates on Facebook, radio and everywhere. All these look like mere advertisement.

Every time we talk about women’s equality we end up discussing about the incidents that caught the headlines in the recent times, how the world is unsafe for women - the list is endless. Think again, is this what we call the ‘modern world’? Respecting, appreciating and acknowledging women for a day and being the same old male chauvinistic society for the remaining 364 days of the year is pointless.  I firmly believe if every woman does not stand for herself, nobody will.

Now is the time to break the barrier, put an end to silent suffering, step outside the kitchen boundaries because there is a whole new world outside. Opportunities awaiting us and there is a call to succeed. Succeed- not with special allowances or with sympathy but because we deserve to win and show humankind that we have our way.

For yesterday’s words belong to a different language. Let’s be the voice of tomorrow.  Show the world that courage does not roar but a soft whisper and a gentle touch that says ‘WE CAN! WE WILL!’


Evolution – it can start with you, now, from where you are.


Sunday 2 March 2014

FOR DREAMS BIGGER THAN FEARS



March 02, 2014 started off like yet another Sunday. Little did I realize that this day could create such a big impact. Day 2 of EWEEK 2014 it was. A workshop by the dream team was organized for the sixth and seventh graders in Samathur, a few kilometers from the Coimbatore city.

Dream In! The team has been capturing the dreams of a million youth. But the day with these kids were unmatched.  Barely 13 years old but their thought process, clarity of vision, ambition, passion, the drive to be successful and willingness to learn were truly inspiring.

Most of them had no idea about the difficulties and the challenges life has in store for them. When the team asked few students on what they wanted to become in future, the answers we heard were unexpected. One wanted to be an aeronautical engineer and start his airline manufacturing company, a few aspired to become doctors and a couple of them wanted to be I.A.S officers. With their head held high and utmost confidence they told their name suffixed with 'I.A.S'. I was taken back. Dreams and ambitions had no limits. Lawyers, teachers, pilot, entrepreneurs, police officers and all they had was ‘A DREAM’.



All their innocent smiles spoke just one language-love. The kids welcomed all of us with utmost enthusiasm. Truly the ‘annas’ and ‘akkas’ had a special effect. Very inquisitive, they were fascinated by the very things which most of us hardly notice. Not because we see or do them every day but because we don’t stop to appreciate those simple moments. Funny! As we grow old our dreams shrink. The fear of failure, assumptions of what is possible and what is impossible, the million questions that arise every day, the ‘what if’s, the obstacles we see in our path to success, the reasons we give for not trying- all these limit our aspirations.

Future of our country is this! Enjoying all the privileges which we don’t really deserve, we are indebted to kids like them who have not experienced the same delight. The only difference is the place we were born. Sessions and workshops with such kids are absolutely necessary, not just to share with them what we know, rather assume to know but to learn and grow from what they can teach us. Until today, I did not realize meeting a kid can do so much, change the way I think, alter my approach to what I see around, make me consider every moment a miracle and enjoy life with all its hurdles.  

I couldn’t have asked for anything better. A big thanks to all who made it happen. I’m sure this was a good learning experience for the entire team.  

"Climb every mountain,
Ford every stream,
Follow every rainbow,
Till you find your dream"
-from The Sound of Music